Finding pals who can make you feel all cosy and pacific is never an easy task . Anticipating such cordial relationships with the opposite sex can often be a tough row to hoe, though only till you find your copy books. Being a part of the girls squad all time, I’ve more often wondered ” What would it be like, to be that one girl in an all guy friends gang!! Perhaps not too easy… but must be definitely exciting!!! Perhaps not a very comforting bond!!! Or perhaps, I’m wrong ….” I was always flooded with such doubts. And then I found these “LOVES OF MY LIFE”, my coolest guy friends. And being best friends with such right guys as mine, is a whole new territory, in fact completely blissful. There’s something astounding about spending your life with such a solid group of coolest guys, and have each other’s back no matter when or what. Here are a few things that the “Only girl in an all guys gang” can alone experience and enjoy.
WIERD LOOKS THAT TURN INTO DEEP STARES!!
Though you know it’s cool and okay to hang out with your guys and live in each other’s pocket, the folks around you wouldn’t necessarily find it much cool. Every time you walk with your guys, laugh aloud with them, hang around them , you’re gonna be stared at and judged. Your girl acquaintances might keep their distance from you. You may even be titled the “Spoilt Brat”. But who cares, until your squad loves you and you love them back.
When you are one among an all guys gang, there is always less drama. There’s absolutely nothing to be jealous of each other. None holds a green-eye in the gang. All you care about is some good flavoured popcorn and Netflix and hence absolutely no time for any drama!!!!
ABSOLUTELY NO GOSSIPS , NO SECRETS!!!
When with your boys, you have nothing to gossip about. What other guys think of you is no longer a pain in your ass!!! All your squad talks and argues about is cars, bikes, sports, movies and some politics. More importantly, you do not hold secrets from each other. You know each other perfectly well, that your flaws never change your feelings for each other. Any time you go off the track, your boys are right behind, to put you back on track….!!!
LATE NIGHT ICECREAMS AND PIZZAS
No matter how late or how early, your boys are always all ready for a hang out, some quivery music and to grab some food. And with your boys around you, none would dare to mess with you. Naturally, you are more secured and protected than any other girl out there!!! Anytime they smell trouble for you, you are encircled by your heroes – to rescue!!!
With your boys, you can hit timely vacations to any unknown corners at any time. Your guys are always geared up for some adventure and fun. But you never really plan an agenda, cause your boys are gonna hate schedules and following one is only going to make things messy…. And there is gonna be no room for more than a hand luggage, hence you got to stop hoarding!!!
Your boys may never flood you with praises, instead they slap you with realities. These guys never talk behind your backs nor give up on you, simply cause you are theirs. Everyone in the gang enjoys the freedom to be what they actually are and wins a return of love for it. All you have to do is “BE YOU” to fit among them!!!
DUDE OR BRO!!!
Your guys rarely consider you a girl and weird nick names seldom make you forget your own. But in fact, you are the only GO – TO GIRL for your gang of guys who are still hankering to figure out the female mind. More often, you are just another dude or another bro, except when they need advice about their crushes or to decode the text messages they receive from their crushes. Only can you coach them on some romance and relationship issues.
NO MUCH DRESSING UP!!!!!
Your lads are not gonna tolerate you dressing up for hours like a Disney princess. A pair of faded jeans and a t-shirt and a pair of sneakers would absolutely do great. Your unbrushed hair and ungroomed nails matters not to them. You need not own a great number of Mac shades to win their awe. All you got to do is “BE YOU” to fit with your boys. No matter how you look, you belong with them….
STYLIST FOR YOUR GUYS!!!
Often you get to help your guys choose their attire and you work to make them look all handsome and gentlemanly. There is honestly only One person who can make your boys look all impressive to other girls- it’s YOU!!!
THICK – SKINNY
Your boys train you to be easy going. You will eventually have a thick skin. And when you try to complain, they make you toughen up. Whether you choose to use it or not, you tend to know more swear words and abuses than an average girl. And when it comes to dirty jokes, you give them a stiff competition. The meaner the jokes, the better they are. Even if it is directed at you, you know that your boys love you. Often you gonna have to join them in their wrestling matches… and born a girl is not gonna win you their mercy!!!
NO SPARE CLOTHES
Anywhere you go, you don’t necessarily have to carry an extra pair of clothes. Their jackets and comfy clothes, which can be a bit oversized will do a good job on you!!!!
A COOL BROTHER
Your lads might be all cool and easy going, but they also simultaneously become your brothers. If you gonna be bitchy, you gonna piss them off!!! You are safe, as long as you stay on the right track.
Sometimes, you’re basically their mother, and you need to make the rational decisions. You got to teach them stuff, be difficult with them at times, pat them an encouragement and sometimes soothe them and then attack them with some grave advice…. only cause their happiness is all that matters to you!!!!
Doesn’t that sound blissful as I mentioned at the start???
SOMETIMES A GIRL NEEDS A MALE’S PERSPECTIVE!!!! My three loved ones out there, though we haven’t yet spent much days together, we are already an elated family. Thank you for your endless laughter, merciless sarcasm, care and love. Sometimes when no one cares, you guys always make a point to show that each one of you do. You boys talk sense into me when I’m being ridiculous. Thank you for the adventures and the risks you readily take only to keep me with you!!!! I can always count on you to be up for anything, and I know it’ll be a blasssstttt…. Nothing is better for the soul than blaring music and singing my heart out in the car with you!!! We often don’t sing but croak…. Who cares !!! It gets us happy!!!! And nothing can turn to be a more proud moment for me, than beating you three in all those card games. Thank you for encouraging and supporting me. Thank you loves, for being that “cannot- do without” part of me and for making me a part of you!!! LOVE YOU!!!!
YOUR BEST FRIEND